Well, I’m not in San Diego for the Holiday Bowl this year. This is significant because it’s the first Northwestern bowl game in my lifetime that I won’t be attending. I had been 13-for-13.
The reason I’m not going? There’s not a good one, really. It’s not like I have a wedding to go to or am leaving the country. It was a personal decision. Because of a lot of factors, my family wasn’t going to be able to make the trip with me this year. And basically, I decided to stay home with them rather than make the trip to Cali.
Now, I have made a bowl trip solo many times before, meeting up with friends in the destination city. But this time, no one from my usual bowl crew from Chicago was going, either. I think it was the Big Ten Championship game factor. Many people – especially in Chicago – seemed to treat that as their bowl trip this year. After playing Ohio State for the B1G title, taking on Utah on New Year’s Eve was a tough sell, even if it was in San Diego, a pretty nice (and warm, for a change) place to go for the holidays.
Initially, I felt guilty about it. It was a tough call and I agonized over it. But I’m fine with it now. Maybe it’s because my daughter’s in college now and my son will be going in a couple years, but I feel like I need to maximize time spent with the family right now. And really, “the streak” had to end sometime. I expect the Cats to be bowling just about every year, and I won’t be able to make all of them.
So instead of watching from SDCCU Stadium, a lot of the usual bowl crew will be coming over to my house to watch the game on TV on Monday night.
The Cats will have to carry on without me this year. I think they’ll be fine – I’m 3-10, anyway.
The reason I’m not going? There’s not a good one, really. It’s not like I have a wedding to go to or am leaving the country. It was a personal decision. Because of a lot of factors, my family wasn’t going to be able to make the trip with me this year. And basically, I decided to stay home with them rather than make the trip to Cali.
Now, I have made a bowl trip solo many times before, meeting up with friends in the destination city. But this time, no one from my usual bowl crew from Chicago was going, either. I think it was the Big Ten Championship game factor. Many people – especially in Chicago – seemed to treat that as their bowl trip this year. After playing Ohio State for the B1G title, taking on Utah on New Year’s Eve was a tough sell, even if it was in San Diego, a pretty nice (and warm, for a change) place to go for the holidays.
Initially, I felt guilty about it. It was a tough call and I agonized over it. But I’m fine with it now. Maybe it’s because my daughter’s in college now and my son will be going in a couple years, but I feel like I need to maximize time spent with the family right now. And really, “the streak” had to end sometime. I expect the Cats to be bowling just about every year, and I won’t be able to make all of them.
So instead of watching from SDCCU Stadium, a lot of the usual bowl crew will be coming over to my house to watch the game on TV on Monday night.
The Cats will have to carry on without me this year. I think they’ll be fine – I’m 3-10, anyway.