I agree with you to a degree, but not completely. From my perspective after reading the article, this was a case of locker room shenanigans that slowly got worse and worse and eventually crossed a line. It's the classic "boys will be boys" that went too far.
Do I think things like this (not these rituals exactly, but things in this realm) happen in some other college locker rooms? Absolutely. Do I think they happen in all locker rooms? No, I don't. I have no idea what that percentage is, but I feel pretty confident this type of stuff is happening in several other locker rooms too.
But just because they happen in some locker rooms, doesn't make it okay. It shouldn't have been going on. That's the most important point. And if there's any positive that comes out of this, I believe this will clean a lot of this crap up across the entire amateur sports landscape. A lot of these schools that have similar types of things going on will clean it up. And that's the good part. The unfortunate part for us NU fans is that we became the example and aren't one of the schools that will clean it up without any bad press. It is what it is. At the end of the day, the most important thing is that crap like this doesn't happen anymore. Cause it ain't right.
I have said from the start and continue to believe from everything I've read that Fitz knew at least to some degree that some of this stuff was going on. Again though, TO A DEGREE. He, like many coaches, believes that "the locker room is the player's space" and trusted through the structure that he set up with the leadership council and 1:1 end-of-year meetings with all players that he would hear about anything that was a problem. I believe he didn't know it had gotten this bad. That doesn't excuse him, but he put too much faith in the structure he set up and it bit him in the ass in the end.