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Thoughts on Hazing

In America we appear to be wildly inconsistent about hazing and how to respond to it. I happen to know two kids currently enrolled as Freshman at the US Naval Academy. Do they perform hazing? In the most generic sense, yes. They make it uncomfortable for the plebs for various reason with the ultimate goal of creating a strong minded person. Like many of you, I was in a Fraternity. Was there hazing? Of course. Fortunately, I would always categorize my experience as a "low level" hazing - cleaning, drinking, learning useless info, etc.

I was a Beta, which of course famously had a pledge die at PSU in 2017. Numerous brothers were blamed for the death in a court of law. To my knowledge, no one in the National or Regional leadership was directly penalized. Was it because they were "removed" from the situation? A common refrain is that "Fitz should've known" and he should pay the punishment. Given that logic I don't know how any Fraternity exists. My nephew, at a different school, was a pledge just a year ago, for a different fraternity. Even his Dad, a "brother" at the same chapter, was aware of the chapter's hazing practices applied to his son. Yes I assume most, if not all, fraternity situations are probably not as gross as the reported incidents in the NU locker room. That brings me to the next issue.

It frustrates me that numerous people have acknowledged hazing incident within the football team and it appears they did not attempt to elevate the issue. Without blaming the victim(s) I would like to explicitly know why they did report the issue. Some said something similar to "Fitz must've known". If he did nothing, then why did they not elevate to the AD, NCAA, State of IL? I know some of incidents were reported by players. I will regretfully admit their immaturity. The members of the staff, no matter how low their position, should have used their maturity and reported the issues. I wish they would not have assumed the problem would go away and intervened. I struggle with not finding them culpable. Regardless, asking why someone didn't report earlier, allows us better assess the culture prevalent in the locker room and the team. Maybe this will unveil issues with Fitz.

I listened to Barnett and he further cemented the idea that Fitz was Player's Coach to a fault. I suspect he had too much trust in his Leadership Council. In conjunction with his "open-door" policy, he thought that no major issues would occur. Sure he wanted strong team unity, but not to expense of the allegations where the team becomes fractured.

We have been told this hazing has occurred for many years. Returning to the question as to why was the reporting was only done recently, bothers me. I never played organized football in HS. I ran X-Country where we "hazed" ourselves by the miserable conditions of running. I sense that many of players experienced some hazing in HS. When at college, they could accept the elevated hazing to help develop the bonds and metal toughness akin to the millitary. This is just a theory, but given the words of praise by many former players for Fitz I would otherwise have a hard time resolving their experiences with hazing.

I believe many issues could have been resolved with better environment. I have worked in the Defense Industry for multiple decades. Every year we are required to have Ethics and Security Training, We must watch ethics vignettes based on real live industry situations. Our security training asks us to report issues. They train us for indications of a person potentially violating a security policy. The phone number to report Fraud, Waste and Abuse can easily be found either on signage around the facility. Although I wasn't directly involved, I knew a Manager that was accused of fraud. The company evaluated the accusations and decided to fire the Manager and several others associated with him. Uncannily, I heard the suspected whistleblower appeared to have issues with the Manager. The Manager sued my company and his pension was ultimately re-instated.

I brought that story up because it parallels the situation with the football team, but most importantly how our Culture was easy to report a potential issue. At a minimum, I hope NU can properly create a culture based on training and access such that no one feels discomfort from a hazing event. If they do have a hazing issue, they know it can be reported without any concern of potential retribution.

In summary, I suspect some elements of hazing will always exist. I wish we could normalize the response to hazing, but that's just dreaming. At a minimum, with annual training and an open culture to report problems this will not happen again at NU and other institutions.

Why it may be time for me to give up sportsfandom and get a real life

As an undergrad, I remember taking Dr. Perry’s History of Religions class on the Old Testament, and hearing his very lucid explanation of the meaning of the Book of Job.

Over the last bunch of years, there have been four sports teams that I have given my soul, time, and money to: NU Football, the Oakland Athletics, NU Basketball, and Cal Football. My life as a sports fan has brought me back to Dr. Perry’s classroom, imagining myself in Job’s role. What, I ask myself does it all mean?

Needless to say, it has been a rough year. With the addition of Boo Buie’s hand injury and Cal’s sudden humiliating exile from the Power 5 added to the Hazing Scandal and Fisher Las Vegas/ MLB Fiasco, I am left with only the solace of my dog, who in previous years cowered on game day for fear I might kick her, licking my imaginary sores.

Should I find some other focus of my time and attention, say, learning photography like Alaskacat or studying odd creatures like Gladescat? Should I start collecting stamps or take up gardening?

My answer is in the Book of Job:

I will take seven bulls and seven rams, give a burnt offering, and the Lord will send the FB Cats to the National Championship, Fisher will sell the A’s to a group headed by Dave Stewart, Boo will be full speed by the start of the season, and the B1G will extend an invitation to Cal.

Go Cats. Beat Rutgers!

T Shirts

We’re nearing the bottom of the barrel here. To go after the team and coaches/staffers for wearing general (us vs. the world) t shirts promoting their team and former coach seems like beating a dead horse? But, I suppose the internet needs something to be outraged over today.

Matter of fact, where can I get one? Hope the team goes full ‘80s Raiders this year and turns the negative outside energy into a nasty streak on the field.

One thing I want to share about Fitz

It's been a couple days now, and I wanted to post something personal here.

Like everyone else, I was absolutely stunned when Fitz was fired on Monday. Even though the scandal seemed to be heading toward that outcome, and I was half-expecting it, nothing could prepare me for Matt Shelton's call telling me Fitz was fired. I was out for a walk with my wife at the time. I came home, wrote a banner headline for Matt's story, and then just stared out the windows of the sliding doors next to the dining room table. Fifteen minutes passed. I just sat there, numb, while my phone dinged over and over.

A few hours later, I texted Fitz to say thanks for the way he treated me throughout his 17 years, and to offer a few thoughts. I think all of you know how much I liked and admired Fitz. With all that guy had going on at that time, he texted me back a couple hours later. He thanked me for covering the team all these years, and then he talked about his love for his players and his program. Nothing about himself. Just his players. Then, he ended his text with this:

Once a Wildcat always a Wildcat!
Neck Roll for Life!
GO CATS!

Reading that almost made me cry. Two days later, I still can't believe this happened.

The program is dead.

the program will never recover from this. NU is going to fall behind in financial support even with B1G money. Dark ages higher ups hating athletics is back in a big way.

The way all of the allegations snowballed so quick makes this smell like a power grab. Hope Schill and Gragg are fired too.

My time as a NU fan is over. I enjoyed talking NU football with all of you.

Like the players suggest, Why Can't This board...

Focus on the football season and move forward? Almost all the comments have to do with the past and the current hazing issue and whether Fitz is or isn't responsible. All of that is important but at this point we're getting close to a football season, it would be nice to see more reporting and discussion about that.

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What a Sh** Show..

Northwestern, the 10th or 11th most highly rated University in the US, seriously? With governance such as we have seen in the past weeks? What could have been if Rebecca Blank had not so sadly died of cancer, and what a twist of fate? I am not a great fan of Fitz recently, as he reached a peak mainly due to Hank, which also shouldn't obscure the level he kept NU football during his tenure, which was good compared to NU's football history, but not great. That said, IN NO WAY DID FITZ DESERVE THE WAY HE WAS DISMISSED.. The NU BOT should be ashamed, Schill should be fired and Gragg, well, that's obvious. Fitz deserves every dime he can get from these pathetic, incompetent characters. Hazing may have occurred, but to hide behind that possibility, while making such accusations as are being proffered is cowardice.
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