You're larger point is accurate and, IMO, you are in the upper tier in terms of fair-mindedness on this board.
And there can be two truths to this anonymous fellow. His intro to this board can be self inflicted and ill advised. And he can be a good guy. From his two days of posts it looks as though both are true.
If Armon Gates was 60 I'd have reacted differently. He's a young man who looks to be very sincere and hard working. It wouldn't be right besmirch his reputation if it is wholly unjustified. And if it's justified then state what the problem is.
I've been on this board 11 years (!) and I believe this is the first personal compliment I've received. So thanks. I'll credit my Medill education for teaching me to suss out BS.
We all know who the trolls are. It would just be nice to have the conversations without all the strange personal animus (but with the ribbing, because this is, after all, the Internet.) One of our fellow posters, thewildcat2011, made the relevant and important point that there's a big difference between criticizing someone's post and attacking the poster. For me, that's where I draw the line and where I begin to tune out.
Anyway, carry on, my wayward sons and daughters.