That's quite a resume, Groucho. I'm guessing fans of Northwestern opponents who've encountered you through the years have a low opinion of Wilcat fans. Congrats to being a hypocritical meat-head.
I've been attending B1G college football since 1992 and always deplored bad behavior by fans. Show up and root for the team. If they win, it's not like you deserve any credit. If they lose, then you have no trash to talk anyway. I never thought I'd be That Guy until I was at the '02 game and four or five guys in their early twenties used the c-word towards my 62-year-old mother (NU football fan since 1961 and game attendee from the Dark Ages on). This is the sort of thing that's beyond forgiveness but I didn't throw hands; I told them they were mighty tough to talk that way to a woman, much less one who hadn't done anything except sit quietly and cheer when the 'Cats made good plays.
After I spoke to THEM about sportsmanlike behavior, then I became the target of abuse. "We'll see how hard he is!!" they laughed at top volume. Fortunately for OSU, they overcame two fumbles by future jailbird Mo Clarett and pulled off a win in the late going. I could have really lost it as I walked past the Lead Smirking Punk on the way out, but I didn't.
In '04, I knew what I would be up against: a crowd of tools who would get abusive like they had something to do with a win over 1-3 Northwestern. I kept my yap shut after getting out of the stadium and took the el back to downtown Chicago. The entire car was full of Buckeye fans but I didn't say a word. When I got off, south of Wrigleyville, (i.e. a ten-mile ride on public transit) a woman in Buckeye gear saw my NU football t-shirt and remarked, "You've been on this train the whole time and have said anything to anybody?"
"I don't need to say a word."
"I guess you're right," she said.
And that was the point I was getting at if you bothered to read my whole post: I'm pleased to say that I've had good experiences with fans from in-conference and out of conference, even Notre Dame and Illinois, both of which like to consider Chicagoland
their territory. I treat other fans with respect if they do the same. If they don't, then fire will be met with fire. And around NU football, I applaud the Buckeye fans (even the drunken immature ones that you hopefully deplore too) that think it's just not a fight worth picking anymore.
Come by the east parking lot next time you're at a game in Evanston and I'll gladly pour a Bloody Mary for you and any other Buckeye fans that prefer watching football to talking trash.